Common Questions & Answers

We limit who may attend our events with one goal in mind: To provide a safe & comfortable atmosphere for Consenting Adults to explore sexual pleasures which often are bisexuality, threesomes, and couple swapping. 

We have many years of experience attending lifestyles parties and clubs all across North America. Some clubs we attended were fantastic, while others were intimidating and downright scary. We learned that the best clubs restricted their membership.

Single women attending our events find themselves in ecstasy and free to explore their wildest fantasies – whether it’s with other lesbian or bi-curious women or meeting fun couples. Straight women can also explore their fantasies… choosing from the many sexy men who have partners that love to share 

New & curious couples: There are lots of couples attending our events who are new to the lifestyle and swinging in general. For these couples, a whole new world of eroticism opens up that only existed in their dreams. Many new couples are shy at first, but there are so many great people to chat with and the possibilities are endless…

Experienced couples, throuples and poly relationships: There are also lots of couples and poly people attending who are quite experienced in the “lifestyle” – each with their own aspect to the lifestyle – some are into full partner swap or “swingers”. But there are many other aspects to the lifestyle – some are into threesomes – some just like to watch their partner be pleasured by others – some only play together knowing other people are watching them and getting turned on – and some just like the erotic party atmosphere and end up finding a private room to release their pent up sexual energy…

Only a Few Select Single Men Allowed – The lifestyle parties we host are focused on providing a fun safe environment for Consenting Adults. Single men often create an intimidating environment that many people wish to avoid. As a result, Club Triple XTC will only allow a few select single men to attend to avoid the drama & conflict that is a regular occurrence at most night clubs. Only those who are already known in the lifestyle community or who are sponsored by another Member, will be accepted.

Age / Body Types: People from all aspects of life and many different ages / body types attend our parties.
*Other than being over 19, there is no official age limit to our events. However, most people generally feel uncomfortable interacting sexually with those who look much older. As a guide, most of our attendees are in their 30s and 40s.
*While sexiness is mostly a state of mind, having a clean & healthy appearance helps create sexual chemistry.  We can’t avoid growing older, but we can all try to keep our bodies fit and our general appearance enticing.

LGBT+ Community – Our focus is on providing a safe & comfortable environment for Consenting Adults of all Gender Identities and all sexual orientations to explore pleasures. We welcome all members of the LGBT+ community, but most of our attendees are heterosexual couples or single women, many of whom are bi-sexual or bi-curious.

Extreme BDSM / Kink not allowed – Many people regularly engage in BDSM play in their bedrooms – such as blindfolding their partner or using restraints or spanking or a partner taking a bit more/less control during sex. BDSM play is welcome at our events, however many people are intimidated by more extreme forms of BDSM & Kink so we don’t allow it. If you are ever unsure as to what is acceptable, then all you need to do is ask.

This is the most common question that new people have regarding our lifestyles parties. We have lots of new women and couples attending, and almost all of them tell us they can’t wait for the next party!

It’s best not to have any expectations but rather just go with the flow and enjoy yourself. If you are attending as a couple, make sure you set your boundaries and limits beforehand with your partner.

Once you have purchased your tickets and have been approved, this is what you can expect when you arrive at the party. Its all about providing consenting adults with a fun safe environment to explore fantasies & pleasure.

If this is your first time attending a lifestyles party, you are quite likely nervous and unsure what to expect. Some people think they will see a wild orgy when they arrive but that’s not at all reality. Instead, the first few hours of the evening are about socializing and flirting with other fun women & couples in a safe, easy-going environment.

When you arrive, you will be greeted by our sexy hostess who will ask for your first name and photo ID. The Hostess will have a printed copy of your Ticket and Conditions of Attendance ready for you to sign.

To ensure a safe and secure party environment, all guests will be given individually numbered wristbands which will be recorded on the Conditions of Attendance document that you sign.

The Hostess will be able to assist you with where to put your coat, footwear and drinks. There is storage available for any personal belongings you may bring. If you do need to bring your phone to the party, then it must be left in the storage area.

Do not carry your phone with you as it will be confiscated. You must bring your own drinks, which can be taken to the bar area where you can label your drinks so they don’t get mixed up with someone else’s. We hire a bartender to keep things organized and serve your drinks to you for tips. We do not sell alcohol otherwise we would be subject to Saskatchewan’s ridiculous liquor laws.

You are welcome to bring food to share. There is a huge assortment of food and snacks for everyone to enjoy during the evening.

Around 10PM, people will gather for exotic dance performances and other sexy activities that continues throughout the night.

The dancers performing appreciate your tips as well as your respect. They are available after their main performance for private lap dances for tips.

As always, there is never any pressure to do anything you don’t feel comfortable with.

There is a designated social area where sexual activity does not occur. However, at several other play rooms, sexual activity is welcome.

Later in the evening, the fun erotic atmosphere continues to intensify. If you desire, you may join others for a pole dance… After midnight, the erotic atmosphere reaches a climax… you will see couples engaged in play such as oral sex and more. Again there is never any pressure to do anything you don’t feel comfortable with. If you don’t want to experience that, you can choose to stay in the social area or leave at any time.

No, there is never any pressure to do anything you don’t feel comfortable with. It’s best to just go with the flow and enjoy yourself while you explore your fantasies. If you are a couple, always stick to your agreed upon boundaries and never try to pressure your own partner into something they don’t want to do.

The Health and Safety of everyone attending is our first priority. This includes ensuring everyone's physical safety and ensuring confidentiality of all those attending. We have taken all reasonable actions but as with any event, we can't completely eliminate risks.

- All attendees have been pre-screened through our Membership registration process. While it is possible for people to provide fake information when applying for Membership, we require payment for events that ensures real people.

- All attendees must show government issued ID at the door when they arrive at the event. This ensures those who are entering the event are the the same as who registered. This also ensures no underage people are attending.

- All attendees are required to wear individually numbered wrist bands. This ensures no one can sneak into the event without being registered.

- All attendees must sign a legal Conditions of Attendance document requiring adherence to all laws and event policies. This helps ensure:
- There are no illegal drugs at the Event
- No one drives after leaving the Event if under the influence of drugs or alcohol
- No one engages in sexual activity with any person who has not explicitly consented
- No one uses any phone, camera or recording device at the Event
- No one divulges the identity of anyone who attended the Event without their authorization
- No one attempts to purchase sexual services from anyone

- Our security personnel are present at all of our events who monitor the health and safety of all participants. If anyone requires assistance, we have people available who can help.

- For all hotel events there is an additional requirement for a negative COVID rapid test conducted prior to entry for all attendees.

- We are strong advocates of healthy sexual practices and encourage everyone to practice safe sex if deciding to engage in sexual activity. Condoms and disinfectant wipes are freely available in all play areas.

Meeting someone you know at a lifestyles party is a big fear of those new to the lifestyle. Yes its possible, but if you do see someone you know, remember that you are both there for the same reason so there is no need to feel embarrassed. Everyone expects discretion with regards to their life outside the lifestyle. People from all aspects of life – business professionals, lawyers, nurses, school teachers, waitresses, construction workers, and yes even law enforcement – are interested in the lifestyle. In fact everyone at some point has fantasized about at least one aspect of the lifestyle… After all its about consenting adults having fun!

While there are over 100 open-minded people attending our parties, its still not always easy to find someone who matches your aspect of the lifestyle and also where there is mutual attraction.

We try to create an environment where everyone feels comfortable enough to express themselves in a healthy way. Feeling safe & comfortable allows people to relax and enjoy.

It is mandatory that everyone must consent to any sexual activity beforehand, and if someone says “no” then it always means “no”. It does not mean “try harder”. Regina Lifestyles Parties has many safeguards in place to ensure a safe party environment.  Anyone causing problems or harassing others will be removed from the event, banned from all future events, and if appropriate, will be reported to the police/legal authorities.

Only you can decide if the lifestyle is right for you. The lifestyle is certainly not for everyone but you never know unless you try.

If you are a single woman, this is definitely your best opportunity to try the lifestyle and it doesn’t mean that you need to be bi-sexual. But if you were always curious about what it would be like to explore with other women, then our lifestyles parties provide the perfect place to explore in a safe environment. If you are straight and not at all bi-curious, then this is also a perfect place for you to fulfill any fantasies you may have such as being with more than one guy at a time. Those who have been in the lifestyle for a long time tend to be extremely talented sexually and are capable of giving you some of the best sexual experiences of your life.

If you are a couple, the lifestyle may or may not be right for you. If you are in a relationship where you have respect for each other and communicate well, then the lifestyle may be something to consider. Both partners must be open to trying the lifestyle. If one partner is attempting to push the other into trying the lifestyle, it will almost certainly end up being a rather unpleasant experience for both of you.

Communication with your partner is key as is respecting the limits you set beforehand. If you explore the lifestyle at the pace you are both comfortable with and you keep your focus on your partner’s pleasure, then the lifestyle will be fulfilling beyond your wildest wet dreams.

If you have decided that you would like to attend one of our events and you already have an approved membership, just go to the “Upcumming Parties” tab in our menu and select which party you would like to attend. Tickets are usually available about a month before the event.

There are several ticket & pricing options, not all of which are available for every event:



Payment can be completed either through PayPal or by sending an Interac email transfer. Once approved, we will soon email you the following:

Your official e-ticket
Additional Party Details – Location & suggestions on what to bring
Conditions of Attendance

For Sociables events, these are located at a public lounge, so dress and act appropriately.

What to bring to hotel or hot tub events:
Most importantly you should bring an open mind and a respectful attitude. Don’t bring expectations… just go with the flow and enjoy the evening.

It’s a private party so bring your own drinks. Snacks and munchies are provided, but it’s always appreciated when guests bring snacks to share.

You should bring a large towel and any personal items such as condoms if you plan to play.

You are strongly encouraged to bring tip money for the dancers, hostess and bartender. They very much appreciate your tips and it is a privilege to have them at our events.

What to wear to hotel or hot tub events:
Each lifestyles party we host has a different theme so have fun with it. Some people have fun participating in the party theme with rather elaborate costumes.

As with all of our lifestyles parties, you can wear as much or as little clothing as you dare… it’s really whatever you feel comfortable with. This is the perfect place to show off your sexy side while not having to worry about people judging you.

But if that’s not for you, then come dressed the way you would if you were going on a hot date to a night club.